Hello guys, it’s your girl Deborah aka Sekani, I welcome you all to another episode of Relationship talk with Debby and I hope we all gained 1 or 2 things from the last episode….
So today we will talk on how to maintain a good communication in a relationship. As I said yesterday, that good communication is the key to a better relationship.
To start with, I know we all know what the term “communication” means. Communication is the transfer of information from one place to another but in a relationship, communication is an important and essential part which allows one to explain to your friend or nest friend or your partner what you’re experiencing which help you get connected the more.
Because no matter how well you know who you call your friend or partner, you can’t know what he/she is thinking except he/she speaks up and make the discussion clear for a better understanding between the two parties.
There are some things we need to know in order to maintain a good and clear communication for a better relationship.
* Set aside time to talk with the other party without interruption or third party present.
* Think about what you want to say.
* Be aware of your tone of voice. This really matter
* Make your message clear, so that the other party can hear and understand accurately.
* Talk about what is happening that you feel changes needs to occur.
* Accept responsibility for your own feelings.
* Listen to your partner and put aside your own thoughts for the time being and try to understand their intentions or feelings.
* Share positive feelings with your partner or friend.
I hope we all gained one or two things from my point of view. You can also drop your comment and there is also room for questions.
Thanks for taking time to read this.
Stay tuned for my next write up.
Debbie